Paying Compliments in the way you intend
You may not know this but giving a compliment requires you to frame your words. Have you had someone who doesn’t know how to take a compliment or someone who doesn’t know how to receive a genuine compliment? This was a great article with really helpful advice on how to make a compliment land the way you intended. It requires some emotional intelligence and structure. Compliments given the right way may just change someone’s world. “you might not know this but…”
- “You might not know this, but people really appreciate how calm you can be in a crisis.”
- “I’m not sure if you appreciated your impact, but your comments in the meeting last week reassured the whole team.”
- “I hope you didn’t think you were alone; when you asked that question in class, you spoke for everyone.”
- “You’re never going to believe this, but I took your advice and it worked out.”
- “Would it surprise you to know how much the newer people on the team talk about you as a role model?”
Check out this article it is worth a short read and then start paying someone a compliment today.
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